Came to a conclusion where i notice its really hard to trust people and i know its probably common sense to know this and that a lot of people say this but its different when you experience it. It sucks when people assume things about you and they have their reasons for it but it really shows how much they really know you. I give props to the people who actually ask the person that they are making the assumptions of to find out if its true or not because it shows how much they really know about that person to be able to defend them. It happens finally got that reality check haha real..